The woman took her parents to quit her job and traveled for 22 days

“The 22-day trip is as if it is a long one year. It has passed through the four seasons and passed through the snow-capped mountains. It was an extremely pleasant mood.” Recently, friends who resigned to Chongqing, Yunnan, and Sichuan provinces shared with the younger friends in Xiqiao when they resigned. Traveling by himself to find the sun, he also unexpectedly harvested the love experience. The legendary experience of “hidden rain girl” has immediately become a hot topic among netizens. However, contrary to the reporter’s expectation, if Xiaola Lai’s “sunshine” experience is told, he told the reporter that the 22-day letting went away Unknowing parents are worried, she hopes she can mature as soon as possible.

Looking for a sunny day

“When I was eating hotpots in Chongqing, Nanjing was raining; when I was feeding gulls in Kunming, it was raining in Nanjing; when I sun bathed in bars in Lijiang, it was still raining in Nanjing. When I felt a large area of ​​sunlight flooding my body, I am deeply impressed by this trip to the sun and I will not take this trip."

“This trip was planned for a long time. Counting the remaining year-end bonuses and the salary for the following month, there were only five or six thousand dollars on the body. After the necessary supplies were bought, they quit their jobs and set a good ticket, so they figured out how to confess to the family. ” In the post, if the netizen Xiaola shows his journey to resign. It is obviously not easy to quit the job for two years, but it is certainly not easy to quit secretly with my parents. If Xiaolah used the reason for asking for leave to give her parents a ten-day greeting, claiming to come back to work after ten days, she went out smoothly.

If you go out after the small pull, it is difficult to suppress the heart of the capers. “The day before I was still at work, I fled the city the next day. In a strange place, I saw others living a life you’ve lived in before, and you’re just a bystander. How happy are you playing? That feeling is addictive. !” If Xiaola analyzes his feelings. If Xiaola is traveling with a friend, the two quit their jobs and rushed to the southwest. In order to save money, the 18-hour road from Chongqing to Kunming, the two young girls chose to take a hard seat.

When transiting from Kunming, if Xiaola said that he had just caught the gull and stayed in Kunming, he accidentally encountered the "bombing" of seagulls that only the tropical rainforest could feel. Afterwards, two people went to Lijiang, Shangri-La, Shika Snow Mountain and Lugu Lake. If you pull the way to see the scenery, write stories all the way, many of which are very interesting things. When she displayed in a slightly banter language, she was highly sought after by netizens. Netizen Double.M said that a heart that walks and walks is really envious.

If the real name of Xiaola is Sun Yunqing, born in 87, she is a Nanjing girl. She told the Yangzi Evening News reporter: “Before I resigned, I worked as an assistant at a taxation agency in Nanjing. After working for two years, I learned a lot, but my work was bottlenecked. I wanted to quit my job and go out to relax. New work starts.” So, during the burnout period of work, Sun Yunqing had the idea of ​​going out and walking. Sun Yunqing said that the weather was always raining some time ago and he was always confronted with congestion. These conditions triggered her choice to travel to Yunnan. “Usually, every day I go to work. When I get off work, it’s late. I don’t see the sunshine all day long. I don’t even have to wait until the weekend. I often catch up with cloudy days or rain.” So, Sun Yunqing decided to go to the sunny place and enjoy the sun. The two work intervals settled their emotions.

“When I was eating hotpots in Chongqing, it was raining in Nanjing; when I was feeding gulls in Kunming, it was raining in Nanjing; when I was sunbathing in Lijiang, Nanjing was raining; when I was worshipping the small Potala Palace in Shangri-La, it was raining in Nanjing; At the Mosuo people's house in Wuhu, I was eating fresh fish soup. When I watched the Mosuo dance, Nanjing was raining; when I arrived in Chengdu and felt the childishness of the wide alley, Nanjing was still raining!” I felt a large area of ​​sunshine When it was full, and Nanjing was still raining, it was deeply felt that this trip to the sun would not be a trip.

Met with "love" days

“It is said that Lijiang is a place where an encounter can be made. A lot of people went there to find an amorous encounter but they never met. They never thought I was married to love.”

In the post, if Xiaola said that he is still accidentally guilty of love, yesterday, the reporter saw Sun Yunqing and her uncle's love, known as the "small teapot."

In the interview, the reporter learned that the small teapot works in Shenzhen and is also a resignation trip after working for two years. The two girls traveled from time to time and encountered cheating. So they worked together after they met a lot of people in the youth travel agency. Yunqing and the small teapot were one week after Yunqing’s journey started. Two people knew because of the stars. “In Lijiang’s bar, around the pipa, listening to the song and chatting with a group of friends I’ve just met, this style touched people's hearts and soothed the traveler’s tiredness and sadness. Later at the Mosuo people’s house and the evening of the bonfire, The people played together and the atmosphere was very good. Everyone in the unfamiliar environment and a group of friends who had made friends took the wine and rejoiced, and everything became unforgettable in a moment of joy.” Recalling the scenes of that time, Yunqing’s memories are still fresh and common. When traveling, Yunqing became familiar with other people including small teapots. Sun Yunqing told reporters that according to the custom of the Mosuo people in the campfire dance, he likes to scratch his palm when he is dancing, but when someone really comes to scratch his palms, the heart is very wild. At this time, the small teapot pulled over his hand and instantly, his heart settled a lot.

The small teapot said that if she pulls her place, she is kind and frank. “It was an accident. It was very close to the eye. So naturally, happiness came.” Later, after experiencing the thrilling experience of losing sunglasses and finding a mobile phone, the journey was almost over. If Xiaola returned to Nanjing a few days later, The small teapot also came.

“It is said that Lijiang is a place where an encounter can be created. Many people go there to find an amorous encounter but they never meet. I never thought that I was married here and loved.” Yun Qing said.

"Sun" travel harvest

Before leaving travel, resign from their parents’ journey and learn to understand their parents

Sun Yunqing is an only child. She used to go out with her parents and never go out on her own. Even when she was studying in Nanjing, she went to school every weekend to pick herself up. “I’ve always been a prostitute, so I went out to play this time because there was a friend who accompanied me, so my parents were not at ease.” Yunqing said, because she was walking out of her parents’ hands, my parents had always thought they were It was leave, but after 10 days, my parents worried. "Why don't you come back to work yet?" Then Yunqing began to tell the truth. I told my parents that I had resigned.

Yun Qing said that her parents were angry and spoke on the phone for a long time. “I took a half-hour cry on the street after the phone call. It was very sad. Because my parents had never been so annoyed before.” Yun Qing said, during the first ten days of travel, my parents called every day. Greetings, and later, after knowing to resign, there was infrequent contact. Yun Qing knew that her parents were very worried about their own safety. Therefore, whenever they encountered fun scenery and things, they would take the initiative to call their parents and send them MMS to tell them they were very safe. “Mom knew I was marrying her happy and I was also very safe and slowly I was not angry.” Yun Qing said that this trip is also a kind of growth for himself. He knows how to understand the feelings of his parents in the future and how to get along better. . "When I returned to Nanjing, my parents wouldn't be angry if they saw me returning safely."

"Before the two work breaks, let go of all the emotions to travel, rest, and then continue on the road!" Yunqing said, this trip also let himself understand that in fact they are self-care ability, and hope that they will become more mature in the future.

Before I travel, I feel like I am a stranger.

"A lot of people are just like me. Some of them are quitting school, some are asking for leave, and others are resigning and playing out." Yun Qing said that when it comes to a lot of people, it is like this. Therefore, the feeling that he had been brave enough before has become an instant very common.

"On this road, I met many people. Many of them resigned and came out to play. I feel very much in agreement."

Yun Qing said that in Lijiang, there were many people who had traveled from Shanghai, Beijing, Shenzhen, and Guangzhou to resign and traveled. "I met a person who also loves to play World of Warcraft. Because we talked about the game very well. He came to Kunming and started looking for work along the street on the first day. Then he worked as a helper in a guest house at a guest house. After spending a few hundred dollars a month, he continued to the next destination when he had enough money.The next day we went to Kunming, he moved out from the Youth Hostel because the money on his body could not afford the deposit. "Yun Qing said that he gave up his job and came to live here in order to find the true self.

This road also met a lot of people. Yun Qing said that many people are looking for the desired life while they are at work. "Every day at noon youth travel agencies are sitting in a courtyard full of people in the sun, the Internet, write postcards, chat and smoke, all feel comfortable, the feeling of isolation and isolation. Watch them laugh The slapstick, drowsy, it feels life is full of bleak." Yunqing recalled the travel at the time, but also immersed in the relaxing Lijiang.

Expert interpretation

Learn to give yourself a big holiday

For more and more people in the city who choose to resign and travel, Yangzi Evening News reporter interviewed Shi Yu, a psychologist from the Emergency Medical Center of the Chinese People's Armed Police Force General Hospital. Dr. Shi told reporters that this phenomenon of resignation travel is common in first-tier cities. There are many people who want to resign and travel around, but there are few people who actually implement it.

“When I quit my job and travel, many people in Beijing are like this. This kind of resignation is not forced, but it occurs frequently among young people who work very steadily.” Dr. Shi Yu said, this is now popular “You The Hakkas, who gave up their jobs to dominate their lives, slowed themselves down from high-speed working conditions, away from busy tensions, and left more time for themselves. The pressure of life is high, and many people have been “doing additions”, working hard, making themselves tired, relaxing and resigning. This is a good way to adjust.

For the emergence of this phenomenon, Dr. Shi said that it is related to the development of the society. “Young people do not want to live in a way that they sacrificed their bodies to earn money when they were young, but they spent money to buy health when they were old,” and in the news reports, they saw that young people had died from work and they bravely Stop the high-speed life! Actively choose to relax yourself." Dr. Shi said that many people do not want to be dominated by others, want to control their pace of life, and live a slow and leisurely life, so they stay away from social recognition and travel alone.

Resignation travel is a form of relaxation, but it is not advisable to resign if traveling because of compromise or evading work. Moreover, Shi Yu said: "Not everyone is suitable for the 'Yaku', because this kind of life is far from the recognition of others, it is simply to do it yourself, without the social recognition of others. Everyone has different opinions on himself. Some people are self-assessed, and some people rely on others for their evaluation. 'He commented' is not suitable for long-term 'yokkas' because they will live in contradictions without identification." Shi Yu said, like Ruo Xiaola In the burnout period of work, resigning from work, relaxing, and then thoroughly relaxing, finishing ideas, continuing to go on the road with spirit, and investing in new work, is a good mode of adjustment and is worth advocating.

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